Make A Personal Investment In Your Love Life

When you choose Life By Creation Relationship Coaching you’re investing in the power to turn your love life around

What is Relationship Coaching?

Creating the relationship that will transform your life may not just ‘happen’- but inside of you, right in this very moment, you do have the power to find, create, and reconnect with the love of a lifetime. Firstly, you have to overcome your fears, have loads of self-awareness around who you are at your core, and master the skills and disciplines that will transform your existing relationships, your future relationships, and your entire life...

Relationships are an awesome, juicy, ingredient that adds so much more to the quality of our lives. Love is a force more powerful than any other. It is invisible. It cannot be seen or measured. Yet, it is powerful enough to transform you in a moment and offer you more joy than any material possessions ever could.  A partnership can provide support, love, meaning, connection, joy, pleasure, comfort, and friendship. Yet, in the human experience there is also nothing more important than this love and relationship. We can have amazing children, a great job, a healthy body, financial abundance and spirituality- and yet, without someone to share it with, our lives have less meaning and fulfilment.

When the relationship or marriage is not working the way both people had hoped it would, this relationship can lead to disappointment and frustration, and may significantly lead to load of distress. Individuals in a relationship may be faced with issues they find overwhelming and unable to confront, ‘fix’ and cope with.

Often the average couple wait approximately six years before searching for support for relationship problems. When the relationship gets really overwhelming and couples hit the point of enormous amounts of pain- that is the time when they will generally seek help with the relationship.  Unfortunately most couples don’t seek professional support until it is too late. In Australia, approximately 45 per cent of all marriages end in divorce- that is almost half of the population of couples getting married.

In some cases, the problems and issues within the relationship may vary from family and religious beliefs, infidelity or struggling with differences in the relationship as they get older.  In other cases, a couple may attend relationship coaching or counselling to help them make decisions about a particular aspect of their relationship (like where to live, whether to get married or whether to have a baby). Sometimes couples come to relationship coaching as a way of understanding each other better and making a more informed decision about their long term commitment.

Couples Coaching can be of huge benefit to any relationship, regardless of the nature or severity of your problems.

You’ll grow together as you:

• Learn to talk to each other. I mean really, truly communicate. Magic happens when you can listen to each other and speak freely.
• Reconnect and strengthen your emotional bond and connection.  Restoring any lost intimacy and learning to trust again.
• Examine your life and love values to uncover your true needs in a relationship (they may be quite different to what you think)
• Explore ways to implement NLP techniques to make positive thoughts and actions second nature.  You’ll really believe that you can successfully create the ultimate fulfilling life partnership.
• Identify moments that have defined your outlook on love and learn to draw more strongly on the positive defining moments to always keep a constructive outlook towards future relationships.
• Develop personal strategies to make you more effective in attracting, and keeping the love of your life.

Why Couples Coaching?

In order to understand how relationship counselling and coaching can benefit your relationship, it is first important to understand what Relationship Coaching is and why couples attend. Relationship Coaching is with a professional Relationship Coach and is primarily focused on helping a couple resolve problems or issues that are causing them distress. We support our clients to focus on meaning, connection, and long-term goals, in addition to helping them find a partner or improve their existing relationships. Relationship Coaching is a professional client-focused service where an individual or couple are to achieve their specific relationship goals with effective support, information, and techniques.

Couples benefit from coaching in a variety of ways.  Very often, the source of our problems as couples is not that we do not love and care about our partners; it is that we do not know how to communicate well about what we want and need.

The Benefits of Couples Coaching can include:

• Learning about each other's love strategies and understanding your partner's love langauge
• Exploring the role of Masculine and Feminine dynamics within your marriage or relationship- and how this polarity can play out in your life
• Increasing your communication skills, learning how to really listen to your partner and really, genuinely connect again
• Appreciating how to better understand the challenges and fears that our partners may face
• Learning about personal boundaries and past history that we may not have known before
• Improving your intimacy within the partnership, both of a sexual and non-sexual nature
• Learning to let go emotionally and practically of a Relationship that has already ended